7 things you have to look for your relationship
People around the world knew that development in technology helps us to make sure human relations stand still. So that, this improvement makes us still connected to the people by communicate each other. Talking about communication, Larry A. Samovar in his Communication between culture book wrote four functions of communication. Communication makes people can collect varies of information, communication helps for fulfilling their interpersonal needs, communication can determine personal identity, and by this term, we can influence others. Moreover, Caroline F. Keating said that communication also has the power and the capacity to share in each individual in a variety of ways, including the beliefs, ideas, values and other.
7 points below are the writer elaboration of social penetration theory ( Altman and Taylor).
1. Medium
Intermediary for communication and interpersonal relationships may vary. As we have seen in the use of technology that is so massive, people can connect with people at great distances through social media better access through your website pages or software form. In addition, communication or interaction face to face course,still remain. Of the two types of the communication medium, the reader needs to consider the advantages and disadvantages of each. In addition, the placement of the subject to the people should pay attention to the media that we use to avoid the danger of course we do not want.
2. Role
Communication or the relationship is not a game that emphasizes on the winning or losing of the participants. Communication, as the authors have explained above, referring to the improvement of quality of the relationship and the closeness of sharing information. Communication does not know who is more to have a stake in each context of discussion. If that is so, then it is only one-way communication or we may say rhetorical.
3. Breadth and depth
The breadth of topics of conversation we hold are also worth noting. The topics we discussed both with peers, colleagues, boyfriend, or family shows how we are recognized in a relationship. Readers can judge for yourself by looking at measuring whether the conversation took place. In addition, concerning the breadth of the subject, another important aspect namely how in communication or relationship that lasts. The more extensive and deeper, means showing your closeness with the people you talk to. And vice versa.
4. Background
Every man who joined in the group will certainly dissolve and live in the culture of the group. Although it is contrary to the personality of each individual. Later, a group can not just sit back and wrestle in the group only. Required dynamics and interaction with other groups. by this action, each group will discover new cultures and most likely occur a few bumps. This happens because each group will tend to retain more of their culture. Hence, the group is in favor of thought and perception of what it has and putting other groups.
Refers to a relationship, each group need to make the relationship or interaction with other groups. It aims to develop knowledge of the group in a variety of fields. Related collisions that will occur in the future, and therefore the task of the group with their respective members to take a stand.
Samovar[1] in his theory says that there are three main elements that make up a large and influential cultural perceptions or directly to the individual participants of intercultural communication. The first is the view of the world (the belief system or religion, cultural values and behaviors), the second is a system of symbols (verbal and not verbal), and the third is a social organization (family and institutional). To understand the world, values and behavior of other people we have to understand the framework perceptions. In communicating intercultural ideal we hope a lot of similarities in the experiences and perceptions of culture. But the cultural character tended to introduce us to experiences that are not the same or different. Therefore, it brings the perception of different cultures in the world outside their own culture.
Related to the above, Liliweri say that intercultural communication will be memorable if everyone involved in the communication process capable of laying and functioning communication within a particular cultural context. Moreover, intercultural communication is determined by the extent to which humans can reduce misunderstanding made by the communicator and the communicant between cultures.[2]
5. Intimate or nonintimate
You decide and assess the intimacy of a relationship. Of course, intimate or not, lead to your privacy as a human being who has a myriad of secrets. You can just open the secret if the relationship has to be said intimate, and make sure all you give do not betrayed by the other person
6. Reward
In this aspect is not questioning the calculations or building a relationship. Reward the author meant is that the intimacy that you intertwine course will provide balanced information. If you share the information widely and in, the communicant also presents a similar thing in levels.
7. Cost
A total of whether the costs should we spend so that our relationships with others running smoothly. This could be anything. whether it's money, business, opportunity, energy, attention you devote to others to existence and the need for a relationship that you need can be fulfilled.
[1] Larry A. Samovar, R. E. Porter dan Edwin R. McDaniel, Communication Between Culture 7E (Boston: Wadsworth, 2010), pp. 50.
[2] Liliweri in Journal of Communication Science, FISIP Universitas Sumatera Utara,Volume 10, Nomor 1, January-April 2012, pp. 15.
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